Sunday, January 27, 2013

The Big Lie


I got this book from Mary last Christmas but laid it aside and didn't do anything with it.  Then, Kathryn and Will went to a concert where the author read from this book.  Kathryn asked me if I had heard of it and told me that she had bought it for her niece and when she read it herself she was so inspired by it and found it "faith-affirming."  So I got my copy out and read it from cover to cover.

It was wonderful!  Such beautiful language and gorgeous art work.  It was faith-affirming.

I love that it describes God's love as "Never Stopping, Never Giving Up, Unbreaking, Always and Forever" love.

Awesome!

One part that particularly got my attention was the story of the fall of Adam and Eve.  That chapter is called "The Terrible Lie."  The terrible lie that Adam and Eve believe is "God doesn't really love me."  ("If He really loved me, He wouldn't keep that fruit away from me.")  To me, this is the terrible lie that is the root of all the lies we believe.

The Bible tells us there's only one way to judge how much God loves us:


"But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."  Romans 5:8

"This is how we know what love is:  Jesus Christ laid down His life for us."  I John 3:16a

We cannot look at our circumstances, especially when they are trying and difficult, and use them to judge God's love for us.  The only way to know God loves us is the fact that He died for us (for me).  When we look at what we are going through and say, "If God loved me He wouldn't let this happen to me," what we are really saying is, "Dying for me wasn't enough, God.  I need more."  

Think about saying that... "Dying for me wasn't enough."

How can anyone ever imagine thinking that someone who died for them didn't do enough?  It's crazy!

Yet we've all done it.  I know I have.

And all this came from reading a four-page story in a children's Bible.  You should give it a try too.  Who knows what you might get from reading it? 















Friday, January 4, 2013

An Open Letter to Andrew Peterson




Dear Andrew,

My daughter bought me your book, The Monster in the Hollows, for my birthday, and I just finished reading it.   I had read the other two books in the series earlier and was happy to find that the series will continue.  Thank you for writing such a wonderful story.

As it happens, I have been attending a conference in Atlanta called Passion 2013 hosted by Louie Giglio.  I am volunteering time to staff this great event and have been reading your book during the breaks.  I have been struck by how much your book and the things I am hearing here have overlapped in my mind.  The central focus of this event is ending modern slavery.  As I have been listening to speakers tell about their experiences with slavery around the globe, I then read the chapter where all the children are freed from the fork factory.  What a coincidence!

One of the speakers is the head of an organization called International Justice Mission.  His name is Gary Haugen.  He is involved in prosecuting perpetrators of human trafficking all around the world.  He said something very profound that really struck me.  He said that he deals with ugliness and evil all the time in the work that he does.  It takes a lot of courage to face it and fight it.  He went on to say that what makes it all bearable is to be able to look away from it and find beauty in art, in music, in poetry and in story.  That statement just really rang true with me.

In reading your book and listening to your music, I find that…the courage to stand up, to fight for right, to face evil.  One of the reasons your stories bring courage is because the Wingfeather family face awful things, even death, but because their story can be read from beginning to end, one can see how all the events fit together and work together for good in the lives of the characters.  If I can remember that truth as I face the things I deal with in my life, I can know that in the end, when my story is complete, the same thing will be true for me.  It gives me hope and great trust in “the Maker.”

Thank you for all you do.  You have impacted my life in a significant way and I wanted you to know that.

                                                            A devoted fan,
                                                            Pam Kiper
 


Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Approaching the New Year



I just finished reading A Year of Biblical Womanhood by Rachel Held Evans.  My daughter Kathryn is friends with Rachel and got me started reading Rachel’s blog.  Her writings have had a big impact on both Phil and me.  We have gotten to meet Rachel and her husband Dan on several occasions, and we have enjoyed getting to know them. Her book is an experiment she embarked upon to look at what the Bible specifically says to and about women. 

As a result of reading her book I have decided to embark upon my own “experiment.”  It is one that I have had on my mind before, but I could not figure out how to make it work.  Rachel’s book has given me an outline for how to structure my own project.

Over the next year I am going to begin to try each month to focus on a spiritual discipline.  The list of disciplines will be based upon The Celebration of Disciplines by Richard Foster.  I will select a topic for the month and post a list of practical suggestions on how to apply that particular discipline.  After that I will try to live with that discipline in focus.


Before I begin this project in January I have decided to take another passage from Rachel’s book and apply it.  In the final chapter she observes Rosh Hoshanah, the Jewish New Year celebration.  In leading up to the new year, Jews take time during this celebration to reflect on the past year and confess their sins.  I intend to do this, taking stock of the past year and confessing where I have failed and fallen short.  I will put those sins behind me as I look forward to a new year of opportunity to live a life more and more pleasing to the Lord.

I am looking for some partners in this undertaking.  I need some friends to accompany me to keep me accountable and also just to share the impact of these things in their lives.  I would happy to have friends near by who can meet with me to discuss what we are learning, but would also invite my online friends to join me virtually.  You can let me know if you’re in by emailing me or contacting me on Facebook.

The whole purpose of this project is to draw nearer to our Lord Jesus and to know Him better in the process.  The better we know Him, the better we will love Him, and the better we’ll be able to reflect His love to the world around us.



Saturday, December 15, 2012

Sunday's Comin'


I just finished reading yet another Philip Yancey book, The Jesus I Never Knew.  As I read the concluding passage of the book I could not help but think how applicable it is in light of the tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary School.

In the book, Yancy references a famous sermon that you may be familiar with called "It's Friday, but Sunday's comin.'"  The sermon contrasts Good Friday with Resurrection Sunday.  Yancy takes it a step further saying that today we live in that in-between day, the Saturday of darkness, grieving, confusion, and uncertainty.

 Can we trust that God can make something holy and beautiful and good out of a world that includes Bosnia and Rwanda [and the Holocaust] and inner-city ghettoes and jammed prisons (and now Sandy Hook) in the richest nation on earth?  It’s Saturday on planet earth; will Sunday ever come?

That dark, Golgothan Friday can only be called Good because of what happened on Easter Sunday, a day which gives a tantalizing clue to the riddle of the universe.  Easter opened up a crack in a universe winding down toward entropy and decay, sealing the promise that someday God will enlarge the miracle of Easter to cosmic scale.

It is a good thing to remember that in the cosmic drama, we live out our days on Saturday, the in-between day with no name.”

Why are we left in this state?  Yancy’s conclusion is that this is the cost of giving humans a free will, a will to choose God’s love or to reject it.  Through the tragedy of this particular Friday in Connecticut, we see once again the high cost this proposition brings to the world, and the idea is unfathomable from our perspective.

All we can do is cling to this hope… “Sunday’s comin’.”

Sunday, December 9, 2012

Eshet chayil! Woman of Valor!

Kim with her granddaughter

“Eshet chayil—woman of valor— has long been a blessing of praise in the Jewish community. Husbands often sing the line from Proverbs 31 to their wives at Sabbath meals. Women cheer one another on through accomplishments in homemaking, career, education, parenting, and justice by shouting a hearty “eshet chayil!” after each milestone.  Great women of the faith, like Sarah and Ruth and Deborah, are identified as women of valor.”
--Rachel Held Evans

My friend Rachel, who makes her living as a writer and hosts a blog, has a series dedicated to women of valor.  She highlights women she knows, and also had a contest in which other women could write a tribute to a “woman of valor” in their own life.  I have been inspired by these stories and want to share this story as my own reflection on a “woman of valor” who I have come to know.

Nine years ago Kim VanDyken had a problem.  Her daughter was having difficulty in dealing with another girl at school. As Kim learned about the problems facing the difficult girl, she recognized some great needs in the girl’s life.  This girl needed someone to care about her, someone to reach out to her, someone to be a positive influence in her life. This situation was very troubling to all those involved, but in the end God used it to create something beautiful.  Kim felt God’s call to be a part of reaching out as a mentor to girls who have great needs in their lives.

The program Kim created was called Tender Loving Care (TLC).  Kim began by asking the schools to refer girls in need to TLC.  Each girl who agrees to become part of the program gets a sponsor (women from different churches in our community) who sends a gift once a month throughout the school year.  This gift is a way of reaching out to the girl with the love of Christ.  Kim also holds events four or five times during the school year to which all the girls who have become a part of TLC are invited.

On Thursday there was a Christmas party for the girls.  I was able to attend this party and observe some remarkable things.  Almost 50 girls of assorted ages came to the party hosted by Kim and her crew of faithful helpers.  There was a spaghetti supper, gift exchange, devotions, a movie and some games.  During the devotion, the girls were asked to respond to several questions about how God might be working in their lives.  One of the questions was, “Which of you girls just needs a hug?”  The response was overwhelming.  So there was just a time for giving and receiving hugs, reaching out and wrapping the arms of God around girls in need of love.

And in the midst of it was a line…girls waiting in line to get a hug from Kim.

The connection Kim has created with this group of girls is remarkable.   You can see her love for the girls and their great affection for her.  She consistently shines the light of the gospel of Christ into their lives.  Many of the girls have been coming for several years and are stepping up to become leaders and mentors in their own right.

I am thankful that I’ve been able to be a small part of this ministry from the beginning.  And I’m more than proud of my sister Kim who took a difficulty she encountered and turned it into a beautiful outpouring of God’s love into the lives of some very needy girls.

And so to Kim I say…
Eshet chayil!




Monday, November 5, 2012

Politics and Elections



In light of the election on Tuesday I have been reading several interesting sources that have a lot to say about politics and faith.  I have grave concerns about the way Christians approach politics; I find that they are often very confrontational and belligerent.  I have often thought that when we take sides in politics, we build a wall between people who take the other side.  Will that wall help them win others to Christ?   If not, then we need to rethink that wall.

Now I’m not saying that we shouldn’t vote or that we shouldn’t have opinions about politics.  I’m just saying that we need to be more gracious in dealing with those who have different opinions.

I recently read, What’s So Amazing About Grace?  by Philip Yancey.  He had several interesting ideas about faith and politics:

I share a deep concern for our society.  I am struck, though by the alternative power of mercy as demonstrated by Jesus, who came for the sick and not the well, for the sinners and not the righteous.  Jesus never countenanced evil, but he did stand ready to forgive it.  Somehow, he gained the reputation as a lover of sinners, a reputation that his followers are in danger of losing today.  As Dorothy Day put it, “I really only love God as much as I love the person I love the least.”  (p. 158)

When I ask my seatmates, “What comes to mind when I say the words ‘evangelical Christian’?” they usually respond in political terms.  Yet the gospel of Jesus was not primarily a political platform.  In all the talk of voting blocs and culture wars, the message of grace—the main distinctive Christians have to offer—tends to fall aside.  It is difficult, if not impossible, to communicate the message of grace from the corridors of power. 
The church is becoming more and more politicized, and as society unravels I hear calls that we emphasize mercy less and morality more.  Stigmatize homosexuals, shame unwed mothers, persecute immigrants, harass the homeless, punish lawbreakers—I get the sense from some Christians that if we simply pass enough harsh laws in Washington, we can turn our country around.  One prominent spiritual leader insists, “The only way to have a genuine spiritual revival is to have legislative reform.”  Could he have that backwards? (p. 230)

I see the confusion of politics and religion as one of the greatest barriers to grace.  C.S. Lewis observed that almost all crimes of Christian history have come about when religion is confused with politics.   Politics, which always runs by the rules of ungrace, allures us to trade away grace for power, a temptation the church has often been unable to resist…When the church has joined with the state, it tended to wield power rather than dispense grace.  (p. 233)

I know how easy it is to get swept away by the politics of polarization, to shout across picket lines at the “enemy” on the other side.  But Jesus commanded, “Love your enemies.”…Who is my enemy?  The abortionist?  The Hollywood producer polluting our culture?  The politician threatening my moral principles?  The drug lord ruling my inner city?  If my activism, however well-motivated, drives out love, then I have misunderstood Jesus’ gospel.  I am stuck with law, not the gospel of grace.  (p. 242)

We all know that there is extreme gridlock in Congress.  I tend to think that the beginning of all this came from the religious Right forming organizations like the Moral Majority.  Although their intentions were good, mixing the church and politics leads to the great divide we find at the center of our problems today.  Democrats and Republicans can find no middle ground on which to stand.  Even the leaders of some of these organizations realize the problems:

Cal Thomas, one of the leaders of the Moral Majority said, "Two decades after conservative Christians charged into the political arena, bringing new voters and millions of dollars with them in the hopes of transforming the culture through political power, it must now be acknowledged that we have failed.  We failed, not because we were wrong about our critique of culture, or because we lacked conviction, or because there were not enough of us, or because too many were lethargic and uncommitted.  We failed because we were unable to redirect a nation from the top down.  Real change must come from the bottom up or, better yet, from the inside out."

''There is virtually nothing to show for an 18-year commitment,'' laments Gary Bauer, president of the Family Research Council, who once served in the Reagan White House.

And finally, there were a couple of interesting quotes from Jim Wallis in Sojouners magazine (November):

I am referring, in particular, to efforts that cast Barack Obama as “the other.”  The contention of the “birthers” that the president wasn’t born in America and doesn’t have a birth certificate, or of those who suggest he isn’t a real American, and those who charge that he isn’t really a Christian but is secretly a Muslim—all these are racial messages.  They should be confronted by people of faith, regardless of our political views and no matter how we will vote.

“The phrase ‘middle-class’ was likely the most repeated phrase at the conventions.  And even though both parties are utterly dependent on their wealthy donors (a fact they don’t like to talk about), they know that middle-class voters will determine the outcome of the election.  Now, I believe a strong middle-class is good for the country, but Jesus didn’t say, “What you have done for the middle-class, you have done for me.”  Rather Matthew 25 says, “What you have done to the least of these you have done to me.”

These writings have given me lots to think about in this current election.  It has been good to hear a variety of voices.   Maybe they will help you too.



Saturday, November 3, 2012

Pumpkin Lesson

Sometimes at this time of year I get to share one of my favorite lessons.  It is not original with me, but I love the analogy, and I've used it often to illustrate God's work in our lives.  I thought I would share it again here.

For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.  Hebrews 4:12


God's word pierces our hearts and makes us sensitive to what's inside our hearts and minds.  It makes us aware of what God already knows...


that we're a mess inside.  Romans 3:23 says, "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God."


"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."  1 Jn. 1:9


Then God sends His Holy Spirit to inhabit our lives.  His presence brings light to the darkness.


Then He places us out in the dark world to shine for Him.  "You are the light of the world."